PART 1

Well This Is A Story Of  Every Girl In A "Serious Relation"


I keep wondering
Why God created Girls
& if he had to, then why did he make them EMOTIONALLY FOOLS
Because of some foolish emotions we fight with God 
"why did you make me a girl?" 




But girls, we have a power inside us
With time we realise the meaning behind our being
Our life's are best understood while 
we are on a journey feom a girl to womenhood, womenhood to motherhood etc
and at that stage of being a women when we try to find the girl in us




We girls are blessed
Most guys find us to be emotional fools and irrational
They feel we are immature just because we ask them,
'' you love me, ryt?'' , ''when are we gettin married?''
''how much you love me?'' etc




Every girl wants to be more beautiful
because her guy wants to see her beautiful
What is beauty by the way??
spending hours in the parlor or wearing a beautiful dress
Is that what most of us  consider beauty as?




Beauty has no definition
but beauty has to be immortal
Age one day will conquer all our beauty
what remain is your nature, your behavior, the respect that you get
are few of the many qualities that makes a person beautiful




The heartfelt beauty of we girls 
is our dedication and devotion 
we put in so that our loved ones are happy
and of course living a independent life 
but knowing our limitation




Its not about our sex appeal 
Its not about how haut you can be
but a its all about 
how special one can feel with us
How much he wanna spent time with us?




Its not at all challenging for us 
to bring someone on bed
It doesn't take time for us to make a guy fall for us
but making him accept our individuality and independence 
is surely a back breaker task




I have always lived my life as a TOM BOY
I never lived in a gang for girls until i was single.
So i have come across numerous guys
but on a scale of 10 hardly i felt 1 
was capable of understanding me




We girls are so innocent that
we think that yes this guy is the love of my life
and we start depending on him
We even let him take decision for us
without even knowing what exactly he feels




During this he has half conquered our life
he starts feeling superior and proves his dominance over us
he never understands, we depend on him 
so that he feels trusted loved and respected
and not because we are weak and unsure




So girls, we better not blame them
its completely our mistake that 
we give them the right to rule us
and that's exactly where 
the journey of " taken for granted" begins




My best friend always tells me
"Pri, a guy is different when a friend and very peculiar when boyfriend"
to which i reply,
"Agreed, but isn't it true that only a good friend of yours 
can turn out to be a better "MORE THAN A FRIEND"

PART 2

The day we start getting feelings for some guy
we find our self thinking about him 24 X 7
These guys are smart, they exactly know how to tackle a girl
because they know we are emotional fools
Few mushy words and we are in




We girls live in an all together a different world
which is far far beyond this world of money and material
Guys have a complaint that we expect a lot
But there is not much you guys have to do
to keep us happy




For instance, We love that you:
-pampere us with nick names and some affection like one shows on a new born child.
-sing for us
-get up early just so that you can see us sleep and get up
-come and hold us from back while we are engrossed in something
-suddenly start flirting with us
-behave stubborn just so that you can take shower with us
-stare at us in a crowded place and wink
-protect us
-hug and say "you are the cutest thing happened to me"
-wanna cook together


Guys behave just like a us at the initial stage of any relationship
but as time passes not much changes except that
we think about him and he thinks about he and his life
Things that should were "our" become :my"
knowing the fact things are not like they used to be..........

PART 3

Its weekend !!!  
Dad has planned a a family outing
but we sneak out of the house saying some lie
and we did that because all of a sudden 
he wants to spend time with us


We reach the decided venue 
and we do nothing but wait
and like always 
he is late again
& inspite of being a female we reach on time


So much time we waste waiting for him
and he will take all his time in the world
we are angry and annoyed
angry because people stare
and annoyed because he doesn't care


And best part 
the moment we see him
we forget all the anger and annoyance
and just melt
So rightly said, Girls are emotional fools


BUT BUT BUT!!!
above all this there lies a fact
NOT ALL GUYS ARE THE SAME
2 OR 3 OUT OF 100 ARE THE PRINCE OF YOUR DREAM
SOMEONE FOR WHOM YOU ARE THE WORLD


A Guy who makes you feel special
Makes you realize your ability, capabilty
Assures you that he will be besides you
holding your hand
irrespective of the situation


If any of you girls out there
Happen to meet a guy like this
hold him tightly and just keep holding 
because you are just declared to be
the luckiest female on the planet earth


He is just the guy every girl is looking for
In whom you can see the same love 
that your Dad has for you
he is the guy, whom you can
introduce to your parents.


EVERY GIRLS LIFE CHANGE WHEN SHE GETS IN A RELATION
BUT ITS WE WHO HAVE TO DECIDE WHAT KIND OF CHANGE WE OPT FOR
WE ARE BLESSED WITH A POWER
AND THAT IS THE ABILITY TO BALANCE YOUR LIFE, YOUR FAMILY LIFE AND YOUR LOVE LIFE.


ONLY A BALANCE BETWEEN THE THREE WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE WORTH LIVING
AT THE VERY FIRST PLACE YOU BELONG TO YOUR FAMILY
SECONDLY, YOU BELONG TO YOUR SELF
AND LASTLY YOUR LOVE


IF OUR FAMILY AINT HAPPY WITH US 
WE WILL NOT BE HAPPY WITH OURSELF
WE WILL LAND UP MAKING MISTAKES IN OUR LOVE LIFE




IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO PRIORITIES
AND TO IMPEMENT IT ACCORDINGLY


I WISH ALL YOU BEAUTIFUL GIRLS OUT THERE A VERY VERY VERY PERFECTLY BALANCED LIFE